In the last 3 months, I
have spoken at 5 different funeral services. Each service was different from
the other, but the pain and the tears were all the same. Families and friends
mourning and attempting to comfort each other over the loss of their loved
ones. Although we are all aware of the inevitability of death, it is never easy
losing someone you love and care about – no matter when, no matter where, and
no matter how that person departs this world. However, most people believe
their loved ones are in a “Better Place” after death. People use the term
“R.I.P” (rest in peace or power) quite often as they celebrate the life of
someone they have lost and mourn their departure from this world. That belief
is filled with hope as it empowers people to grieve better, knowing that their
deceased loved ones are at peace and in a better place.
Even
among non-believers, there is a fundamental belief that death is not final.
Although there maybe sharp disagreements regarding what lies beyond death,
phrases like “They are in a better place,” or “Rest in Peace” denotes the idea
of some type of belief in the afterlife – a life beyond this metaphysical one,
and that is because the soul will live on. We are more than just flesh and
blood. In the Bible, Job asked this poignant question: “If someone dies, will
they live again?” (Job 14:14). A question that science and logical human
reasoning cannot answer. Please, allow me to offer a brief biblical
perspective. According to scripture, death happens when the soul departs from
the body (Genesis 35:18). The soul is the very essence of man, it is the breath
of life that God places inside of us as living beings (Genesis 2:7). When all
biological function that sustains human organism permanently cease, the soul
returns to its creator (Ecclesiastes 12: 6-7). Everyone understands the human
body is nothing but dust and eventually will turn to dust after death, whether
through cremation or burial. However, the soul lives on because no one and
nothing can destroy it except for God who created it (Matthew 10:28).
Now,
one must ask: “Where does the soul live on?” It saddens me to say, not everyone
who dies will be in a “Better Place” or “Resting in Peace.” The soul will live
on either in Heaven or in hell. In Luke 16:19-31, Jesus talked about two men
who died and were buried but their souls lived on in two different places. One
of them was not resting in peace, he was in torments and in agony. Jesus
sacrificially offers himself as the only way to know for sure that our soul
will rest in peace (John 14:6, Matthew 11: 28-29). Your soul will live on, but
where?
YOUR SOUL WILL LIVE ON
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